As the nation gears up for Election Day, adults and children alike may be experiencing a range of emotions, from anxiety to excitement. While only adults can cast their ballots, kids are not immune to the political discourse that surrounds them. This article explores how parents and caregivers can help children navigate the complexities of the electoral process, fostering a deeper understanding of democracy and civic engagement.
Unlocking the Power of Civic Participation: A Guiding Light for the Next Generation
Addressing the Emotional Impact of Elections
The political landscape can be a daunting and overwhelming experience for children, who may be bombarded with information from various sources. Ann Thomas, the CEO and social worker at the Children's Place in Kansas City, emphasizes the importance of recognizing the emotional impact that elections can have on young minds. "Your actions and behaviors are being seen and in some ways emulated by children of all ages," she explains, underscoring the need for adults to be mindful of how their own reactions and attitudes can shape a child's perspective.To help children navigate these emotions, Thomas suggests framing the election process in a way that resonates with their everyday experiences. "It's helping [kids] understand that this is a time of choice," she says, drawing parallels between the decision-making involved in elections and the choices children make in their daily lives, such as choosing between wearing red or blue socks or deciding on pizza or taco night.Fostering Curiosity and Understanding
As children become more curious about the electoral process, it's crucial for adults to provide simple, age-appropriate explanations. Thomas advises against over-explaining, emphasizing the importance of listening to the child's specific questions and responding accordingly. "Listen to what the child asks and answer that question specifically," she says, encouraging a direct and focused approach to addressing a child's concerns.Lee's Summit mom Lacey Helmig has made the election a regular topic of conversation in her household, recognizing the value of educating her children about civic engagement. "It's important to me that my kids are educated about it," Helmig says, "I want them to be aware of civic engagement and how important it is to vote."Helmig's eight-year-old daughter has even taken an active role in the electoral process, holding her own "election" at home, with the candidates being herself and the family dog. While the validity of this election may be questionable, Helmig sees it as a valuable learning experience, and plans to take her daughter to the polls on Election Day to witness the democratic process firsthand.Navigating Differing Opinions and Perspectives
As children are exposed to a variety of political views, they may encounter situations where their friends or family members hold different opinions. Thomas emphasizes the importance of using respectful language when discussing these differences. "Words matter," she says, "The words we use to describe other people who have different beliefs is different than the words we use to attack people for who they are."By providing children with the tools to articulate their own beliefs and understand the perspectives of others, adults can help foster a sense of respect and open-mindedness. "It really is giving them language and words to be able to articulate what it is they believe," Thomas explains, underscoring the crucial role that adults play in shaping a child's understanding of the democratic process.As the nation prepares for Election Day, it's clear that the impact of the electoral process extends far beyond the ballot box. By empowering children to engage with the democratic process in a meaningful and constructive way, parents and caregivers can help cultivate a new generation of informed and civically-engaged citizens, poised to shape the future of our nation.